Dare To Be Different

To the resilient human spirit buried under centuries of oppression and inhumane treatment screaming for freedom to express it’s true potential, I  write:
We’ve been fed lies over time, lies that have reduced us to living beyond our true ability, lies that have brought to the lowest valley our lofty dreams.


We we’re told there are rules guiding the game of life and that there’s a limit one could go.

The truth is,  the desire and passion for personal freedom is buried in the spirit and heart of each human.  There is no limitation to how far or how high you can go.

If you will be exceptional in life you need to discover how to unlearn things you have been thought and create the life you want.

Many of us want to fit in and live our lives inside the walls our background and people around us built in our heads, but I know we’ve all got a yearning for greatness.

Nothing in the world is worse than someone who doesn’t understand what he possesses.

We live our lives lacking the in dept of our true abilities,  we live our

based on what people before us passed to us and every time we try to fit in to what we call Norm deep inside us frustration sets in but we are too weak to stand alone and live our dreams.

We we’re told their a rules guiding the game of life and their is a speed limit and how far one could go.

They told us not to dare do things differently cos we might receive a different outcome, fear is what we’ve learnt from generations before us.

We need to rewire our manipulated minds and unlearn what we we’re taught,  until then, we are not living our lives rather we are living for them.

The time is here, you are born to discover grounds and explore the Earth, birthed for greatness the world is yet to see.

You are unique and posses distinct abilities, you have a place set aside for you from the beginning of Times, so stop following the crowds.


You Attract What You Think 2

As a Man thinks in his heart, so he is.

These are the words of the wisest and the richest King in the ancient world, your thought create you.
The most important lesson you will ever learn, is perhaps the discovery that your dominant thoughts control your dominant direction in life. Every single consistent thought you think have a tendency of physical manifestation.
Have you at some point in your life been in bad mood and the rest of your day was ruin with loads of bad events? Have you felt good and corresponding occurrences we’re good? That’s no coincidence.

There is a relationship between what you think and what you experience. Whatever thought your mind dwell on, your subconscious mind goes yo work to create it in your experience.

Like a radio station tower, human being are vibrational transmitter and receiver. In every moment,we broadcast a very specific vibrational signal that is instantly being understood and answered and instantly your present and future circumstances begin to change in response to the signal you project.
When you are feeling really good and everything is working out in your life,good things comes to you easily and you are in flow with everyone, but when you release negative vibrations you tend to attract negative circumstances like meeting a wrong a person, misplacing valuables and so on, thing seem not to be working out well in your life.


You might also have discovered Stagnacy in certain areas of your life, here is the reason.
It has been discovered that an average person thinks some 50-60,000 thoughts each day, but the problem is that 99.99% of those thoughts are leftover thoughts from the day before. Most times we discover we are thinking exactly the same worn out ideas and beliefs and we consistently dwell on the same worried, guilts and fears.
This attitude limit our capability to move forward and drain our capacity for new innovative and creative ideas. If only we let go of these rigid ideologies that we receive from our environment and background,  then our mind will be opened the new ideas, opportunities and new dreams.

To breakthrough negative mindset, you start by changing your thoughts and perception about yourself and life as a whole. Remember,  what you allow yourself to think about will control your life. Your thoughts and perception has shaped your life from childhood to wherever you are right now, you are solely responsible for whonyou are.
Your external world will always be a reflection of the words, pictures and images that flows through your mind. Poor people dream of our to get out of poverty thereby concentrating on fighting it while the rich ones only cast their mind on becoming richer. What these two class set their mind to in turn creates their reality, circumstances that befall the poor gives them enables the to fight the more while the circumstances that happens to the rich makes them richer.
What you think, you attract.  If your mind is set on having a pass mark in every exams you write or being an average staff, you are in serious trouble cos the universe will attract circumstances that will make you strife to be average in that field, I’m sure you’ve know what I’m talking about.

Continually remind yourself what you want and want to do. Never focus on what you don’t want where you don’t want to be, don’t focus on the opposite if a positive idea.


I’m sure you now know that what you think creates your reality, you may be wondering “how then do I control my thoughts?” It’s simple.
All you have to do is guide your thoughts to where you feel would be your highest advantage. Mark Victor and Wayne Dyer have a four letter word they say when a negative thought enters into their awareness. It’s simply four letter words NEXT.
Remind yourself that your desire must be in complete alignment with your belief and dreams. You don’t  have to wallow in worries and thoughts of failure, know what you want,  forget what you don’t want, set your mind to that wilhich you want and consciously work towards it.

When you don’t this , you begin to release positive vibrations and attract positive frequencies into your life and things start prepositioning you towards the fulfillment of your life destiny.
Read books that will set you on the path to fulfill your dreams, change people you give your listening time to for mind consciously feed on what goes in through your ears. Surround yourself with things that will help you and the universe will work in your favour.
Do without that mindset of survival, if you don’t want to end up struggling to survive. You attract what you think.

You Attract What You Think

You are a human magnet, everything that goes on in your life is the external picture of what goes on within.
Remember this, whatever you desire is moving toward you right now, just as you are moving toward it.

Every events, circumstances, experiences etc have their origin in ourselves. For what you set your mind to, you attract into your life. Guard your heart with all diligence.


Wherever you are currently in your life , what ever your current reality is at some point in your past, by your behavior and thought, you made a decision to be here.

There are no accident in life in contrary to the belief of many. Realize that everything that befalls you, good or bad, is an outcome of some actions in the past however distant.

Your outer world is a mirror image reflection of your inner world. What’s going on on the outside is a manifestation of your inner world.


What goes on inside you, the thoughts you think about and what intrigues you reveal what you will attract into your life and where your life is headed because you are a human magnet.
Special thanks to Richard Carswell (The Law of Attraction )

Dream Big

You got the eggs in you; the world is fully ready to celebrate the chicks out of your laying labour. Never give up. Go and breed! Go and breed great dreams.
It is often said that our thought will determine who we are, if we are afraid to dream wide, we might end up struggling with what life brings to us. Let me share this with us.

Two grains were lying side by side on the fertile soil. The first grain said: “I want to grow up ! I want to put down roots deep into the ground and sprout
from the ground. I dream to blossom in delicate buds and proclaim the
coming of spring. I want to feel the warm rays of sun and the dew drops on
my petals !”

This grain grew up and became a beautiful flower.
The second grain said: “I ‘m afraid. If I will put down my roots into the
ground, I dont know what they will face there. If I will grow tender stems,
they can be damaged by wind. And if there will be flowers, they may be
disrupted. So I’d rather wait for the safer time.

The second grain was waiting. While the chicken that passed by did not peck
He who has the audacity to stop you from dreaming is he who had given you the imaginations to think, but not those who watch you as you explore the dreams!

This story taught me of the power of dreams, you need to define clearly what you want from life and not accept what life brought you.

I have never heard of anyone dreaming of failure or aspiring to be unsuccessful. Failure does not play any part in dreaming. It is the dreamer that instills failure, not the dream. I have read of many very successful dreamers that failed numerous times before they experienced success. The difference is that failure was not going to end their dreams only motivate them to dream bigger.

The dream will serve as a driving force or compass to where you wish to be in the nearest future. Onawale said “many with the mindset of survival will end up struggling to survive”

Step out in faith today to pursue your life dream, for every dream and every plan you conceive,  remember that destinies are attached to it.

Dreams are given by God with a purpose at a specific point in time.


Set out today  to dream as wide as the ocean, high as the heavens. Believe and pursue your dream, live to see your dream realised.

If you can think it, my friend you can achieve it. I believe in you, start today!

Grace: Another Opportunity

During the early days of the civil war a Union soldier was arrested on charges of desertion.  Unable to prove  his innocence, he was condemned and sentenced to die a deserter’s death.

His appeal found its way to the desk of Abraham Lincoln. The president felt mercy for the soldier and signed a pardon. The soldier returned to service, fought the entirety of the war, and was killed in the last battle. Found within his breast pocket was the signed letter of the president.

Close to this soldier heart we’re his leader’s words of pardon.  He found courage in  Grace.


The story of this you g soldier teaches the act of grace, everyone indeed deserve another chance to be better and that’s what life gives us every single day we rise from the comfort of our beds.

Life’s throws at us another opportunity to live a life full of Grace and love, another opportunity to try smarter what we missed yesterday.

Will you then keep wasting away these beautiful and priceless opportunities?  Will you keep the feeling or regret and the shame of your yesterday?  Will you keep letting the shadows of your past hunt you?

I say,  you will be ungrateful to the giver of Life if you allow yourself to be trapped in the mistakes of your past rather than making effective use  this opportunity you have again.

You can! Yes, you can grasp this opportunity and forego your past, you can live a life full of grace and radiate love to people around you, you can others the reason not to give up, you can be a source of motivation. 


Grace has brought you this far, I know Grace will lead you home
Grace reminds us, it’s not our past or present that defines us rather it’s our will to become better. Yes,  you can!

The Right Positioning

Hello  beautiful,
Like a child ignorantly playing with a sharp blade, intrigued by the neatly carved silver stainless devoid of the damage it’s capable of, the Mother comes and harvest the blade from the poor child while the child burst into ceaseless tears.


As a child, we ignorantly make decisions that are damaging to our future, and few times you see God in different ways  telling you to desist from that path but we often ignore His warnings. The Bible said “There is a way that seemed right in the eyes of a man, but the end thereof are ways of death ”

Out of love, God could get us out of that wring path we have decided to ply in order to redirect our steps in the light of fulfilling our life purpose.

I have seen Men(women alike) frustrated with their life, as every day goes by they wished they had not made some decisions that lead them here.
I wish to encourage you that have lost something and you think you may never recover from the loss, to you that has been forced to leave your job, career or relationship. Fear not, His thoughts towards you are thoughts of good and not of evil, to give you an expected ending.

Open wide your heart,  for He is ready to lead you a guide your way.
Be patient and stay connected as you grow into the person you we’re made to be, grow in the light of His grace daily. For grace has brought me this far, I know grace will lead me home……..

My Fear : My Fuel

Don’t be afraid of your fears.
They’re not there to scare you
They’re there to let you know that
something is worth it.
C. JoyBell


Fear can be a beautiful thing if we have positive understanding of it, often time when I’m about to start something new, I’m always scared if it will work but afterwards I realise what kept me going was the fear of if it’s going to work.
The truth is, you can’t eliminate fear, but you can make it your greatest weapon to bring to fruition what you have started.

Learn to replace your fears with curiosity, by doing this you will generate an enthusiasm and strength to keep going .


Remember as a child , when you are in a dark and scary place, you are afraid of what might be in the dark with you.
Tell me, did you stay in the the dark because you are afraid? Of course No!
The darkness made you even run faster, willing to get to your destination in time.

So is it today, let that fear fuel your passion and desire to attain a greater height. Learn the path of illumination today, turn your fear to your fuel.

Give and Walk Away

Jarod Kintz  said in “This Book is Not FOR SALE” that
When you give everything and
expect nothing in return, only then
will you be in a position to gain
anything. When you love loving,
you give because giving is getting.
Giving is a gift unto itself, and when
you realize this you understand that
you can’t network if you can’t love.
I’m not sure why I’m emphasising so much on this particular topic “unconditional love” these present times.

I believe there is a wrong mindset that’s being passed from generations based on the fast changes that have over the years occurred here on Earth, which is “nothing comes free”


Its so unfortunate that whenever I witness a true act of giving, I get thrilled because I don’t get to see that everyday.

I didn’t write this to tutor you on how things have grown worse, rather I’m telling you to find a place in your heart where you can give without the expectation of a “return”, where you can be truly free. A place where your heart will know what true happiness mean.
Learn to give and never expect

Happiness doesn’t result from what
we get, but from what we give.
– Ben Carson


True Disability:Lack of Acceptance

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“Part of the problem with the word ‘disabilities’ is that it immediately suggests an inability to see or hear or walk or do other things that many of us take for granted. But what of people who can’t feel? Or talk about their feelings? Or manage their feelings in constructive ways? What of people who aren’t able to form close and strong relationships? And people who cannot find fulfillment in their lives, or those who have lost hope, who live in disappointment and bitterness and find in life no joy, no love? These, it seems to me, are the real disabilities.”
Fred Rogers, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember
I also believe many of us suffer similar cases,we are finding it difficult to fit in to the world around us. Life is beautiful but it can also be frustrating when you expect everyone to think like you or when you expect everyone to reciprocate the same amount of love and affection you give.
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You need to understand we human beings are different in all ramifications, we might evolve from the same family or the same environment, that doesn’t mean we will act ,think or life will happen to us in the same way. This understanding will set you free fro hatred and unnecessary expectations.
Learn to love unconditionally, until then you will struggle to live a life of acceptance.
Allow people to make certain mistake and accept everyone as they are, they don’t have to deserve your love before you give it to them.
Let every word that proceed out of your mouth be seasoned with Grace and Love, open your heart immense possibilities and live to the fullest.
“It should be a privilege to be able to say “I love you” to someone. It shouldn’t be something people say just because they feel like it. A privilege that is earned. They say you have to earn the right to be loved; no, love is unconditional, if you love someone, they don’t have to earn it. But. The right to tell someone that you love them? That has to be earned. You have to earn the right to be believed.”
C. JoyBell C.

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