True Disability:Lack of Acceptance

“Part of the problem with the word ‘disabilities’ is that it immediately suggests an inability to see or hear or walk or do other things that many of us take for granted. But what of people who can’t feel? Or talk about their feelings? Or manage their feelings in constructive ways? What of people who aren’t able to form close and strong relationships? And people who cannot find fulfillment in their lives, or those who have lost hope, who live in disappointment and bitterness and find in life no joy, no love? These, it seems to me, are the real disabilities.”
― Fred Rogers, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

I also believe many of us suffer similar cases,we are finding it difficult to fit in to the world around us. Life is beautiful but it can also be frustrating when you expect everyone to think like you or when you expect everyone to reciprocate the same amount of love and affection you give.

You need to understand we human beings are different in all ramifications, we might evolve from the same family or the same environment, that doesn’t mean we will act ,think or life will happen to us in the same way. This understanding will set you free fro hatred and unnecessary expectations.

Learn to love unconditionally, until then you will struggle to live a life of acceptance.

Allow people to make certain mistake and accept everyone as they are, they don’t have to deserve your love before you give it to them.

Let every word that proceed out of your mouth be seasoned with Grace and Love, open your heart immense possibilities and live to the fullest.

“It should be a privilege to be able to say “I love you” to someone. It shouldn’t be something people say just because they feel like it. A privilege that is earned. They say you have to earn the right to be loved; no, love is unconditional, if you love someone, they don’t have to earn it. But. The right to tell someone that you love them? That has to be earned. You have to earn the right to be believed.”
— C. JoyBell C.

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